EXPECTATIONS
It's a sad truth that when we take a look around, we find everyone busy with their own life. Nobody has time to take a break from their busy schedules & get to know others or what they are going through. Everyone's in a race to conquer more of this world before time runs out and focus only on their life & it's problems.
Before proceeding I would like you to read a beautiful story given below..
Once upon a time a very strong woodcutter asked a timber merchant for a job, and he got it. The pay was really good and so were the work conditions and for that reason, the woodcutter was determined to do his best.
His boss gave him an axe and showed him the area where he was to work and the first day, the woodcutter cut down 18 trees.
'Congratulations,' the boss said. 'Go on that way!'
Motivated by the boss's words, the woodcutter tried harder the next day, but he could only cut down 15 trees. The third day he tried even harder, but he could only cut down 10 trees. Day after day he was cutting less and less trees.
'I must be losing my strength,' the woodcutter thought. He went to the boss and apologised, saying that he could not understand what was going on.
'When was the last time you sharpened your axe?' the boss asked.'Sharpen! I had no time to sharpen my axe. I have been very busy trying to cut down trees . . . '
This is what actually happens in a relationship. It takes time to sharpen it. Many people believe that a life with their family is enough and that having a healthy relationship with friends or other relatives would amount to unnecessary complications in their busy life.
Have you ever thought about when a relationship becomes
complicated or struggles??
The answer is.. EXPECTATION.
When our expectation fails we become disappointed & lose ourselves over that particular relationship by not giving it the importance it needs. So when we are in relationships EXPECTATION won't bring any happiness but SPENDING TIME & UNDERSTANDING one another does.
So don't try to rush things that needs TIME to grow & Don't ever expect anything from your loved ones. Coz once if they don't treat you the way you expect them to, you will be hurt and disappointment will take over you.
THANK YOU FOR SPENDING YOUR VALUABLE TIME FOR READING THIS HUMBLE POST. KEEP SHARING IF IT BECOMES A BLESSING FOR YOU.
GOD BLESS YOU
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